In any event, you won't change her. No more than she can change your mind so that you find her unattractive. Your motives are far from altruistic, and might even be considered a bit cruel as she represents "a challenge" as opposed to being "a person" with actual feelings no matter how much you might disagree with them.
Perhaps your next conversation might concentrate more on things you both enjoy, or like doing (or even take a chance and actually DO them), rather than how attractive she is. If she is busy enjoying herself, she'll feel more attractive, and she'll feel good about you too. A bit of ENLIGHTENED Self-interest never hurt anyone, and it's a good way to have her take down the wall herself.
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